A lot of shit has been going on.
This post will most likely be a blatant rant rather than any sort of help for my lovely readers – but sometimes you just need to get some stuff off your chest. There you go, that’s my advice for this post!
I’m graduating in 9 days. 9 short days. And I hardly know what to do.
Before this week I felt like I was in a good place. I had some friends to rely on, an apartment to look forward to, I picked up my cap and gown (I even got an honors cord!), Senior Survey was a success. Good things!
Slowly but surely this week has shit all over me.
Let’s go in order of least poop to most poop shall we?
1. I’m an alternate for the big end of year show.
Now this isn’t total crap… This is actually a good thing. I think something along the lines of 67 people got on the list. That includes alternates. So honestly I’m pretty happy about that. Downside: I have to prepare for everything as if I’m in and I have no idea if I’m actually in or not. Its added stress I don’t know if I need.
2. I’m going home after graduation.
The search for an apartment is over for me. My parents and I have decided that I need a break and I’ll figure everything out. I’m not exactly thrilled about it but I’m not exactly disappointed. And that’s hard to wrap my head around.
Why my search is over will be explained in bullet number 3. So let’s discuss the pros and cons of not staying in NYC after grad.
I really can’t wait to see my mommy and daddy and my bunny. That is probably the only pro in this situation. But in my mind that is a huge pro. The con list is much larger…
Commuting to my internship is going to be fantastic. If you haven’t taken NJ Transit before, consider yourself lucky. There is an entire Twitter page committed to making fun of it. It’s terrible. So the idea of riding on the train for over an hour at the beginning and end of my day is obviously the least appealing thing I can think of. Not to mention it is going to cost a ton of money.
When it comes to terms of friendships and what I’ll actually being doing at home, probably nothing. I pretty much have no friends at home. I’ll most likely be sitting on my couch getting fat and playing Destiny the whole time while I pray for a real job.
It’s going to be so lonely.
Basically not the most ideal situation.
3. I’ve lost my friends.
Before you ask, yes this does have something to do with point number 2.
So some of my friends and myself have been planning on getting an apartment together for quite some time now. And hey, we thought we found the one! But due to fees and such our perfect apartment wasn’t going to happen on my end.
So the normal thing to do would be to move on and find another. Guess what? They decided to continue with the apartment and leave me behind. And you know what else? That is some real bullshit. I even found another apartment that was relatively the same price and in the same neighborhood. But nope.
How can I not be hurt or disappointed by this? How can I not feel like our friendship is worthless?
And they don’t even realize what they’re done. All my plans have evaporated. My fun summer in NYC is gone. My easy job search is gone. My slow accent into adulthood is gone.
And the people who did this to me are supposed to be my friends.
And for the record: if you have to say “I don’t want this to ruin our friendship,” you know its going to.
To be completely honest I’m pretty heartbroken.
This is nothing I expected to happen at the end of my senior year. This is supposed to be the fun time! Waiting for graduation…
Instead I’m sleeping the day away, ordering enough takeout for three people, and crying constantly.
This is not how I imagined the end of my senior year.